You're texting your bestie to reveal all but send it to him - #fail. Of course, it doesn’t just stop at texting, Phone provider Three asked us literally every question you would ever want to know about phone etiquette when dating – from Whats App stalking to selfies, and from phone calls to social media.
After the initial panic, it's much easier to explain yourself than to migrate to a different country. So, if you’re wondering what the best way to hang-up is, or when it’s ok to take that first couple selfie, check out our smartphone dating guide.
"I equate online dating to looking for a job," says Julie Spira, cyber-dating expert and author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating.
"You'd want a rock star résumé for your perfect dream job, and you should feel the same way about your online dating profile." And the profile is just where it starts—we have plenty of expert tips, from sending the perfect first e-mail to picking your first date location.
All this begs the question: how do we most effectively date in the digital world?
Fortunately, we rounded up some dating experts to spill on how to become the most tech-savvy dater you can be.
I’d like to know your rules for having a friends with benefits arrangement.
I’m not looking to be in a relationship right now, but I’m only human and I have needs.
Another exception: if there’s something really pressing, like, I don’t know, your sister is expected to go into labor any day now, inform your company that you may be checking your phone every so often. "The amount of times that people are approached when they have photos is multitudes more than when they don't," says Gian Gonzaga, Ph D, e Harmony's senior director of research and development and head of e Harmony Labs. Leave behind group shots, which can make it confusing for other people to identify you, advises Spira, and choose a headshot in which you are smiling."Your primary photo should be all about you." She recommends posting between three to five photos only—any more and "it's as if you're already smothering your future partner." Also, be sure to include a shot where you can see your body. I do so care about your safety here.)This is one that I personally break all the time, but it just makes sense: if it’s taking you more than thirty seconds to text it, you probably just want to take care of it over the phone. The same goes for the opposite case: if you’re composing novels to someone, and they’re texting you back with very short replies, take the hint. Everyone knows not to use texts to break up, or to communicate grave injuries. (Unless the person is a stalker, in which case, please do not respond.The person you’re texting doesn’t necessarily know you or your sense of humor.